The Filming House [Sims in Love: Bachelorette Edition]

The Filming House [Sims in Love: Bachelorette Edition]

I saved the hardest lot for first. The filming house. I reviewed hundreds of lots in the gallery and I honestly thought I’d have to build this myself! Then I lucked out. I found a hunk in the heap of duds.

Don’t get me wrong, there are tons of nice “looking” houses. FindJoo is a creator who has amazing talent if you’re looking for a house that is appealing on the outside and each room is finely decorated down to the pixel. But if you’re looking for an authentic house with flow; that seems to be a weakness of most of the talent out there.

I mean, walking through a bar to get to the kid’s room? Why do they need Jacuzzi tubs?

To get to a specific bedroom you have to walk through not just one, but maybe two or three more and likely a few bathrooms along the way.

I get the impression their glory is on the initial “wow” effect and after downloading and exploring many players realize they can’t even use the property . I found my needle in a haystack.

The only renovating required was the color scheme for the bachelors and that one bedroom that exists on the ground floor that I converted to butler quarters. The Bachelorette quarters needed to have less pink barbie and more classy femininity. The play test revealed some items that needed to be addressed and I’m glad a fire reminded me to install a sprinkler system!

I could not get the lot to install on a 50 x 50 lot as indicated and had to use a 64 x 64 to get it right. I added some nice flowers and a walkway to get to the lot. Absolutely in love.

I opted to go with a filming house as whatever house I use will be used for any Bachelor/Bachelorette challenges I do. If I have as much fun as I hope there may be more in my future. To be honest I may play the wedded couple for a 100 baby challenge.

I’ll end up playing them all in some fashion. I literally removed every sim via the household editor but those I’ve dropped in.

See the speed renovation and play test videos below.

Contestant: Jaiden McCurdy [Sims in Love: Bachelorette Edition]

Contestant: Jaiden McCurdy [Sims in Love: Bachelorette Edition]

Again this was found in the gallery and while most of the households I find are a complete unit with wife and kids – so much so I was thinking of doing those and aging everyone up hahaha.

Then I found this gem. Jaiden is still a teen here but a quick adult up will suit him fine. I turned aging off in my game save so that no one will age beyond what they are starting out for the duration of the show.

Back to Jaiden. He comes with mom and dad plus two younger siblings. He isn’t too bad looking either so that is a bonus plus. I’m not really paying attention to traits – that fun will come with the show itself!

The McCurdys are what you can call a dysfunctionall family! Money can buy you anything but when ego comes in the way it’s hard to make it work. Will they pull through or will the family break apart? #drama #dysfunctional #dysfunctionalfamily #story #backstory #hyaleroux #family #5sims #teen #child #adult #seaons #nocc #ccfree #catsanddogs #cityliving #gettogether #gettowork #comments #parenthood #spaday #vintageglamour

Since this family has stuff from packs I don’t have I will have to edit the CAS for them. Looks like they all ended up bald hahahahaha.

Outfits were just randomish as needed. I wanted to spend more time on who they were as a family – such as jobs and skills needed. I want them to run autonomously and just be a normal family.

Backstory: Jaiden McCurdy

Jaiden did not get the best start in life in forming relationships. His whole family hates children and growing up with parents who were never home turned him into an evil adult who also hates kids. He is going onto the show for popularity and does not expect to fall in love.

Jaiden wants to marry a beautiful woman but doesn’t want to settle down and have a family. He wants to party and move up to Boss in his career. He doesn’t have time to tend to a jealous wife and hopes to find someone who is happy to spend his money and raise their kids. He may not like them but his dad brainwashed him with the whole family legacy thing and so he will spread his seed. What his wife doesn’t know won’t hurt her, right? If he can find one first…

Prologue Requirements

Jaiden is in a criminal career and I gave him the following starter skills for that. We’ll see where he ends up!

  • Mischief 10
  • Handiness 6
  • Logic 6
  • Charisma 6

Blake is the father so I put him on the Business track. I gave him a few promotions so he brings home a decent amount every day. I went the investor route and upped his Charisma and Logic Skills.

Ivana is the mom and she also had the business savvy trait so I went with it but decided she would take the management route.

Larissa is all about the music but as a teenager (game is bugged and says she is a young adult but she is a teenager lol) so for now she can be a Barista. She doesn’t need the money but her parents made her get a job and she liked coffee so win win.

Beau is still a child, even if he appears to be a teen (silly bug). I made him a scout for after-school. His parents work long hours and they wanted him looked after until they were home. So even though he hates being a scout he has no choice.

All updated on the spreadsheet:

Challenge Rules [Sims in Love: Bachelorette Edition]

Challenge Rules [Sims in Love: Bachelorette Edition]

First, Let’s Get Personal

It’s a new world if albeit a familiar one. I haven’t played a sims game since Sims 2 was released! I’ve put in 114 hours since I started Sims 4 TWO WEEKS ago. Yes, 14 days at 114 hours does equal 8.14 hours per day. Given that I play obsessively all weekend it is only like 4 hours each weeknight. Standard in my household.

I’m looking to find my zone in the game. I love building houses and creating stories. I’ve never streamed or published videos on it before because that started with King of Avalon. I’ll admit, I’m nervous. And stressed, haha. Going from a one-game persona to more agnostic one isn’t easy or overnight.

I enjoy being a part of an online community. I love to socialize in big groups who share the gaming bug as much as I dislike being around people in real life. I get to be extroverted in a safe introverted manner. I control who I talk to and when we interact. I can block/ignore and make lifelong friends.

I publish to be social. Not to be popular, just meet new people. So far I’ve been able to respond to every comment on every post I’ve made anywhere. I hope I can keep that up! I care more about community than views or likes; they make me feel good but it isn’t the reason I post. That reason is to be me and express myself in whatever I create. Like art. To be appreciated.

Check us out at

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Now for the reason you are here:

The Sims Challenge: Bachelor/Bachelorette

I am not sure at this time how I will acquire my Bachelor/Bachelorette, Contestants, Lots, or Families. I will either pull them from the Gallery or request that they be made/donated by fellow simmers.

I wanted to randomize as much as possible. This means I don’t want to create any of the Sims or Lots that will be used. I’ll either use the Gallery and ask real life friends to create a backstory or use the EA forums and post a thread there.

Challenge Requirements

You can view the original at XUrbanSimsX website. I have added my own flair to them but kept the spirit of the original in mind. I have mostly changed the requirements and schedule, leaving the base rules in place and adding a few of my own.


I need a lot of them. I’m dubbing my show “The Sims in Love” and will be using #TSIL1 and #PHQ to identify this season and myself. If you make a Sim or Lot donation please ensure I have your Gallery username and that those two hashtags are used. Links to your creation will be provided – I have no plans to upload my own outside of anything that was renovated for the challenge.

Bachelor/Bachelorette & Contestant Requirements

  • Romantic trait is required for Bachelor/Bachelorette Sims
  • Everything else is up to the creator of the Sim: looks, clothes, other traits, and aspiration.
  • Backstory is required.
  • Family home is required.
  • Family of bachelor/bachelorette/contestant is required; 5 sims max.
  • No skills, fame, or job. Whatever they acquire in the preshow work is what they’ll start with.
  • No CC outside of formal outfit – CC links required. Just the top/bottoms/dress – not the shoes, makeup, hair, accessories, and such.

Preshow Work Requirements

Ideally I want a backstory and family to go with everyone. This includes their home. I will be playing the contestants to establish relationships with their family as my challenge will include a home visit to meet the family before our bachelor/bachelorette makes their final decision. Each season will have it’s own game save and all the actors and their families will live forever there. Who knows where this story will end up?

Backstage videos of the preshow work is very likely to be released at some point. If not just streamed live.

Lot Requirements

I need several for this challenge! I’m going from pre-show preparations to wedded bliss and the joining of two households. Either I’ll have to buy all the world expansions (will happen eventually) or I’ll add the locations as needed for the story. Ideally I wouldn’t use the same lot twice outside of the main filming.
(24 Total)
1 – Filming House where everything happens; will be renovated to meet needs.
7 – Homes for each of the 7 contestants where they and their family will live. No renovations.
9 – Date venues; mix to cover solo and groups as large as 5
1 – Proposal venue; where the final two will travel to find out if they won his/her heart
1 – Engagement party venue; congrats to the new couple with family
2 – Bachelor/Bachelorette venues; one for each soon-to-be (yes, we’re going there)
1 – Wedding Venue for the happy couple
1 – Honeymoon venue. Is a baby next for them?
1 – Home for our Bachelor/Bachelorette where the happy couple will live after the show ends

NO CC for any Lot.

The Rule Book

Elimination Rules

  • Before each Rose Ceremony begins the Bachelor/Bachelorette must hug each single. The game is paused and relationship totals tallied. Then the formal ceremony continues with free will enabled.
  • The woman/man with the least compatibility with the Bachelor/Bachelorette will be forced to leave the house immediately once eliminated.
  • Once an eliminated contestant has left, no further contact is allowed via the Bachelor/Bachelorette or remaining contestants.
  • In the event of a tie, the contestant the best relationship with the rest of the sims in the household will be selected to stay, the other will be eliminated.
  • Once a contestant enters the house, they can only leave upon elimination.

House Rules

  • Only service-based npcs are allowed to enter the property until the final Black & White event.
  • Interactions between sims are allowed, as long as they are fair and non romantic!
  • Sims are free to do as they please with full free will enabled.
  • No television, books, phones (will be silenced), tablets, radios/music or computers are allowed while filming for the contestants (outside of events with music).
  • Private journals are allowed and encouraged.
  • No forced romantic interactions, if It happens anonymously it must allowed to happen.
  • If your Bachelor/Bachelorette has whims/thoughts of a sim, be an interaction or even romantic (excluding WooHoo), you are allowed to perform the interaction at any given time. No thought/whim no romantic interaction!
  • The contestants, no matter the whims/thoughts are not given this privilege to act upon them with the Bachelor/Bachelorette. With each other, yes. Especially in moments of jealousy and mischievous behavior. Let drama in!
  • No WooHoo is allowed until only two contestants remain.
  • No Make a Baby is allowed until after the wedding ceremony.

Date Rules

  • Dates cannot be cancelled once they begin.
  • Share the love: you cannot repeat date a contestant until all contestants have had a date (group or solo) in the same elimination round. No double-dipping!
  • Kissing is allowed on dates.
  • There are no roses on dates.
  • All group dates are Elimination dates made up with sims who have the lowest relationship with our Bachelor/Bachelorette after the group house activity that Monday.
  • Solo dates are RNG based on who was left after the Elimination Group Date – the two highest relationship scores.

The Schedule of Events

I have decided to create 7 episodes over 5 weeks – 35 in total. I’ll create a week’s worth on the weekend and release the first episode on Sunday and then daily thereafter. I’ll have a week’s worth on hold at even given moment in case real life decides to have a turn. That does not include preshow work which I’m sure will add more. Maybe they’ll become a new challenge I can play out…

No real surprise, I did this in Google Sheets. I couldn’t help myself. The schedule as set will not change, just the titles as I acquire Lots for dates.

I’ll add new tabs as the story progress. Follow to stay updated on the progress! If you want to create content for this fiasco, drop me a message ❤

Renovating a Castle

Renovating a Castle

I lied. I not only bought a few Sims 4 extras but I also added mods and custom content. I went from nope not doing that cause it’ll mess up the game to full-in-spent-all-weekend-playing-with-just-that.

I’m not sorry either.


I bought the Get Famous expansion for many reasons. I compared all the expansions and decided this one offered the most content I wanted out of them all. I instant cheated my way to Global Superstar first thing. Had fun basking in the glow of my adoring fans and in general played with the new content until I felt comfortable with it. I added on the Vintage Glamor pack to enhance this purchase.

Then things took a turn. I bought the Parenthood Pack because I want to raise a family on this storyline and also acquired the Kids Room Stuff and Toddler Stuff cause they kinda go with it. I still haven’t touched this because…I started a new game with a completely different storyline. One of the things that happens in a sandbox game.

Mod the Sims

I didn’t just do mods, I did NSFW mods. Why? Cause I’m a grown ass woman and when my sims shower, pee, breastfeed, and woohoo I can’t stand the blur. It is annoying and I always patch that out – even when I played The Sims Online.

I found an amazing mod called WickedWhims and also installed animations and such that go with. It took me some time to work through the many settings and I eventually found my happy place with it.

Here is a list of what I call “helper” mods that I also installed:

I also installed custom content. Well, one thing. The default bars in game are too big for the space I had in mind for them and I needed something that was just two tiles wide not four.

I’m being very selective on what I’m adding and why. I played with a lot of mods this weekend and after I tested everything – in it’s own save file – I purged the stuff I didn’t like or need.

Quinn Castle

So, because I finally got access to 64×64 lots in Get Famous, I was able to use the original house I wanted before I discovered the base game only had 50×50 lots and I settled for the next best thing for Quinn Manor.

Build by a wealthy Baron over a century ago, this grand estate is the setting for lavish parties and even played host to royalty! This 44 room mansion contains priceless antiques and exquisitely manicured gardens lovingly cared for by the Baron’s descendants! House building video at:

I didn’t look at the video until I created the link for this post. I didn’t even see the link when I downloaded…or I wouldn’t be as perturbed as I am right now. As you can see the download I did was a repost. Not a perfect one either. I’m missing all sorts of stuff that was in the original build. Like compare the two…

It also explains why all the comments say doors were missing and why some things look awkward. Based on what I see comparing the two this dracularua454 downloaded something that had content from more than the base game… which reverted it to just base game stuff. They then uploaded it as is.

Now I knew when I added this to my gallery that it was a remake of someone else’s work; however I clicked the original by link to amitaliri and got nothing. So I shrugged it off and just went with it cause the house is epic and is only more epic if I’d had the full version.

I approached this as a renovation of an old house to modernize and add personality. I had to add the missing doors and for the most part keep the layout and rooms as they were. I set the main center rooms downstairs (between the stairs) as open to guests and locked the doors leading to the stairs for household only. When testing the lot I noticed that sims went everywhere and it is a BIG house so you cannot do a goaled social event and meet all the objectives.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m in love with my new castle and in love with the edits I’ve made. I only wish I’d had all the pretty things on the outside that add to the glamor of it. Nothing to do about it now. Good to know that while I was doing the renovations all the little quirks I found are now explained. Like how could someone make something so impressive and skillful but miss doors connecting everything?

So far I’m 75% done with the downstairs. I haven’t even touched upstairs. Part of renovating is “learning” the house. Building it then decorating you already have an idea what is where when you play. Coming in I had to study the “blueprints” and figure out how I wanted to make it work for my needs.

I’m still not sure what I’m doing with the right wing (if looking at the front of the house) but I have decided that the center is all for entertaining and the right and left wings are for family only as well as upstairs. For this reason I had to ensure I had music, bars, and bathrooms accessible in the public areas.

My version also has two rugs that are not removable. Bugged I’m sure. So I had to go with a color palette that worked since no other rug combo covered it well enough. In the end I decided that those two rugs are a family heirloom and as such are a part of the house.

That’s it for the “writing’ part of this post. What follows are just pictures that I took and shared of my renovation as I did it with friends in Discord (join us at and the captions highlight our conversations.


Once I discovered these fancy curtains from Get Famous! I was in lala land. Like literally…it changed everything on this build. Many things changed at this point and I haven’t taken full pictures yet. Perhaps I’ll do a walkthrough video once it is all done! Be sure to hit subscribe to get the latest updates.

I leave you with the link to the ORIGINAL BUILD which I wish I’d downloaded but I’m too far into this renovation to start over.

Setting the Scene – Quinn Manor

Setting the Scene – Quinn Manor

First, the Cheats

Skills Cheat List
Cheating is encouraged!
Rewards Points Cheat List

Then, the Purchase

$5.39 for a $50 game?  SOLD!
Well, bought the game for the cost of a monthly Origin Basic subscription. Score!

Finally, Quinn Manor

I take zero credit for this amazing creation.

Bloomfield Palace Castle
One of the few lots I found that features the layout and massive bedrooms I’m going to need.

I was just skimming the gallery when I happened upon the perfect home for the Quinns. It featured 13 bedrooms and 5 bathrooms. The basement has a pool and the first floor is pure entertaining. The rest of the floors are bedrooms and baths with a library at the very top. The rooftop garden area is also unique.

The house is furnished but missing the final touches which I will enjoy adding. I plan on redecorating everything and renovating a few spaces to suit my needs.

I started with the master. It had no bathroom and even though I don’t really need one ensuite it didn’t seem right to have this massive bedroom with no bath.

Lots of empty space in this room.
The before picture. Huge and ideal for a master; but lots of wasted space. Every master needs a bath ensuite…

So far I’ve been messing around with the arrangement and this is not the final product but to start my storyline it is.

Getting there with the renovations.
No doors to the bathroom, it isn’t like anyone but Purls or Dew (or the multitude of lovers after he dies) need a door between them in this space.

That is all I managed tonight. I am in no rush, these things are a process. Quinn Manor will be a living thing – always changing.

Last KoA Conquest and Twitch!

Last KoA Conquest and Twitch!

So I wish I had done live sooner; however it would have been detrimental to any planning lol and that is somewhat irrelevant now.

I decided to stream my last Conquest and KVK. You can watch the highlights below for Conquest.

Drop some love. Mama Purls is back ♡♡

Retail WoW Sub

Retail WoW Sub

I reactivated my subscription to World of Warcraft. Apparently that is all you need to play Classic.

Now if you have never played WoW before then you’ll need to acquire the base game. In fact you don’t need a subscription until level 20! Almost free to try…

So anyways all of my existing toons are Alliance. I really liked the Night Elf race and it sold me. I have many toons that I’ll share eventually.

Since for whatever reason we are rolling Horde in Classic I started over on that side. Just for shits and giggles really. Also I’m testing Twitch… seeing if I could get into this thing.

Wanna watch me fumble about? I mean there is no webcam but I am on Discord voice and well that gets added to the streaming 🙂 much easier than KOA…

Watch me at

Join me in Discord

See you there 😉

Hello Again!

Hello Again!

I’m writing to inform you that I’ve decided to leave King of Avalon.

I’m not going anywhere and if anything will have more to share with you in the future.

You see, I was always a World of Warcraft addict. I only left because it was snowflaked down and made it impossible for players like me to enjoy the game.

The release of WoW Classic changes this and I’m currently recruiting for our team.

This is not for the casual player. You must be willing to put in the effort and be present to succeed.

More news to come! Subscribe to stay in the loop and drop a comment if you’re interested.

Crafting Ancient Avalon Artifacts 4.9.0

Crafting Ancient Avalon Artifacts 4.9.0

In the days of old, Avalon was protected by enchanted tools drawn from the order of the cosmos. Those ancient Artifacts have been long lost.
Ancient Artifacts

In the days of old, Avalon was protected by enchanted tools drawn from the order of the cosmos. Those ancient Artifacts have been long lost.

There is a new statue replacing the waterfall in your city.  Clicking on her will reveal new options for stats.  Since I reviewed this in beta we were provided a lot of free materials to test the new feature and as you can see below I have activated a few Avalon Artifacts.  Yes, those are maxed artifacts and max stats per.  On a stronghold 17.  

Avalon Artifacts King of Avalon
Avalon Artifacts

Activating a Tome – Base Stats

Before you can craft an artifact, you get to choose a Green, Blue, or Purple Tome as your starter.  These cost Holy Dust.  Holy Dust is consumed forever when making a Tome.  You cannot dismantle it to get your dust back.  

Once you activate a Tome you can craft as many artifacts as you want from it!  Think of it like selecting your building plans and then constructing.  A new concept for KOA.  You can craft four types of artifacts twice.  So each tomb will make two artifacts. 

Artifacts use Lake Gravel and Enchanted Mist when enhanced but to make the artifact you only need gravel.  Stock up on that and dust to get started. 

The Tome will always be with you.  So choose wisely before selecting your grade.

Activate Green Tome King of Avalon
Green Tomes CANNOT be Upgraded
Activate Blue Tome King of Avalon
Blue Tomes CANNOT be Upgraded
Activate Purple Tomb King of Avalon
Purple Tomes CAN BE Upgraded.  From Purple to Orange to Gold
This is the best bang for your buck if you can manage it.  Better to upgrade purple over time than waste dust.  Depends on your spending situation or your patience to grind.  

Crafting Artifacts

Well, it is beta after all so of course I selected purple to start.  I had enough materials to make the two max level artifacts I showed originally.  

Avalon Artifact Crafting King of Avalon
Avalon Artifact Crafting

About Ancient Artifacts

Pack Strategy

Well if you’re going all in the best way is to acquire the mats via Lucky Shot.  Per my sources this requires approximately 130 coins to get the gravel for purple crafting.  You just have to reset the board a few times and use 1 coin every reset.

Lucky Shot Board for Artifact Mats
1 shot per to get 10 Gravel or 18 Mist
Swap up the Gravel/Mist for first shot or go for gravel only to get purple artifacts crafted.
Lucky Shot Board for Tome Mats
4 shots approximately to get 8 Dust
Don’t go past 10 coins if farming Dust

I’ve cleared one board – it went exactly in order left to right top to bottom.  

How to Get Lord Experience

How to Get Lord Experience

There are a lot of ways to get lord experience in King of Avalon.  In fact it is one of the easiest things to level up.  You don’t need to max your lord to 65 to unlock the war skills you need.  58/59 is usually a good place to stop leveling the lord while you focus on other important stats.  

Free to Play

Kingdom Threat a.k.a. Golem

So this was nerfed a bit.  It used to be that the experience gained would scale with the damage.  So players who mastered the art of PVE formations early on benefited the most.  This was also when golem was so laggy you had to port and be very fast before the game froze and your buffs died.  

Currently you can gain a max of 890 x 500 lord experience per hit, or 445k experience.  Times ten hits you’re looking at a cap of 4.45 million experience.  This is advantageous because if you’re in a united kingdom those who have maxed their lord no longer push to rank high in golem.  So others can gain the perks.  At least that is how 207 works.  

Golem Rewards Rank 1 through 10
Golem Rewards Rank 1 through 10
Golem Rewards Rank 11 through 50
Golem Rewards Rank 11 through 50

Getting rank one means an additional 5 million lord experience, for a total of 9.45 million.  Getting one of the 21 to 50 ranks will still give you a total of 5.95 million experience.  Which is easy to do as long as you’re wearing war gear and have a formation.  No gold on buffs required unless you’re in a steroid driven kingdom.  Then just pray for migration.

Magic Spire

Really this one is negotiable.  It depends if you have other priorities where your Magic Crystals could be better spent.  Its over 370k crystals for 100k experience.  It is laughable to be honest.  Most people can only hit spire one a day and that is potentially your entire gain for a day if you farm below 8.  Don’t waste your time here, it just doesn’t have the roi other loot traders do.  

Magic Spire Lord Experience
Magic Spire Lord Experience

Merlin’s Trials

This is all perspective.  It all depends on what you are focusing your trial coins on.  I personally used them to level Morgause to 5.  The rest just sit pending a need.  I used to flip them for 3 hour speedups every day, but you never know when you may need something.  Always best to horde than to spend frivolously.  Especially if you’re free to play.  

Here you get 5000 lord experience for 74 coins.  Not a bad exchange.  If you kick that up to 74k trial coins – easy enough to get in a week or two – that is 1000 x 5k lord experience or 5 million total.  That is handy.  For this reason I’d label this as a decent option outside of golem.  

Trial Coins Lord Experience
Trial Coins Lord Experience

Alchemist’s Corner

Honestly, unless your dragon is 70 there isn’t much you can crucible to trade for lord experience.  In fact I’m throwing my lord experience through the crucible to convert to dragon experience.  At about 1/5 transfer.  Meaning I get 1k experience for my dragon for every 5k item I put in.  Unless you have one or the other maxed it is counter productive to use this particular loot trader.  But it is an option.  

Alchemist Corner Crucible Lord Experience
Alchemist Corner Crucible Lord Experience

Spirit Altar

Hold Ceremony

Thes are listed in order of coins spent.  As you can see the last 100k experience x 5 for 54,000 coins is the most effective ceremony to run.  It is worth saving up even if it delays the experience gain slightly.  

  • 100k lord experience for 13,500 coins or 7.4 experience per coin.  
  • 180k lord experience for 27,000 coins or for 6.6 experience per coin.
  • 500k lord experience for 54,000 coins or  9.3 experience per coin.  

Pay to Play

If you’re looking to level fast then packs are a viable option.  They can be expensive depending on the experience you require.  Honestly, if you’re looking to spend there are far better ways to beef up and get a better return on your money than buying these packs for lord experience.  The only reason to buy packs is if you’re an experienced player in a new kingdom looking to gain an edge.  If so you probably don’t need this guide.  

Lord Development Pack

0.99 Lord Development Pack
$0.99 Lord Development Pack

Growth Package

4.99 Growth Pack
4.99 Growth Pack